It’s the last week in March and does anyone else feel like time is flying by but nothing is really happening? Things are happening, of course, but nothing tangible, nothing final, nothing with closure. And I can’t help but feel tired and restless at the same time. I sit at work and wonder what I’m […]
I watched Ellen’s comedy special ‘Relatable’ on Netflix this weekend and beyond being hilarious, there was this beautiful part of the routine where she gets very candid and talks about her life and the power of manifestation. She talks about being broke, alone and believing in one idea so firmly, it got here to where […]
This week was a good one for me. I had a few days off work. Cleaned my apartment. And lashed out at not one, but two people. Go me! As some of you know I’m “planning” my wedding. My fiancé has created a website. I could care less about the website, I care more about getting […]
To make something good of the future, you have to look the present in the face. – Simone de Beauvoir What was your resolution last year? Can you even remember? If you can, do you remember why you didn’t fulfill it? Why it didn’t stick? Unconsciously, you know, but maybe don’t want to admit the […]
The American Film Institute lists Katharine Hepburn as the greatest screen legend to ever live (Bette Davis is number two and Audrey Hepburn is three). For those who haven’t seen her films, there’s a plethora to choose from. Outside of her films, however, Ms. Hepburn is known for the way she lived. Refusing to get […]
The last one hundred years of research suggest that you, and everyone else, still believe in a form of naïve realism. You still believe that although your inputs may not be perfect, once you get to thinking and feeling, those thoughts and feelings are reliable and predictable. We now know that there is no way […]
The point of the Ac(count)ability chart is to not make ourselves feel bad, but to reward ourselves for doing good. The point isn’t to have a perfect score. The point is to change your score every week. To go from one number to a higher one. The point is to reward yourself for drinking that […]
I don’t know about you, but the last few weeks (make that months) have been feeling… out of control. The way I’m eating, thinking, acting. I’m out of sync with myself and the woman I want to be. I’m drinking more than normal. I’m plagued by feelings of apathy and self hate. I find it […]