Having time to really get to know who you are and what you want. It is also an amazing chance to become very strong and driven by your own personal achievements rather than living through your partner.
Coming home to a quiet house. Waking up to silence and making coffee for one. Arriving when I want, leaving when I’m ready. No permission, no checking in, no arguments about who/what/where/when. Spoiling myself completely with no guilt of being selfish. Simply being alone, not as an escape, but as a gift.
Best part of being single is to be just who you are, no curtailment of your personality to make room for someone else’s. That everybody else is perceiving you the way you actually are. But what is great about that is that you know that they actually like you as a person not the couple or the way you’ve been with your previous partner.
Being single is giving me confidence.
Being selfish & free! No restraints, no being forced to hide or downplay any aspect of who you are in order to make someone else comfortable, going where YOU want to eat, where YOU want to shop, where YOU want to travel. Learning who you are, and learning how to be a complete person on your own, so that when you do meet someone you are more likely to have found the right match, as you have a better understanding of what you want & deserve.